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Big weddings, of Grandmother's day as well as today, are usually church
weddings. In the United States, it is not necessary to have both a religious and a civil
ceremony. One will suffice, because the religious ceremony includes the
requirements of the civil law: the couple must secure a license issued by the
state. The actual wedding ceremony may be performed either by the state or a
clergyman. It is traditional for the bride to wear white. If it is a formal
wedding, her gown will be long, with a veil and perhaps also a
"train." Large weddings also have several bridesmaids and a maid or
matron of honor, usually the friends and sisters of the bride. The bridegroom
will have a "best man" and as many groomsmen as the bride has
bridesmaids. Friends of the bride and bridegroom and of their parents are
invited to the wedding ceremony, which is usually followed by a reception at
which refreshments are served and an elaborate white wedding cake is cut. The
tendency today is toward smaller, more intimate weddings, chiefly perhaps
because of the high cost of a big wedding, which traditionally is borne entirely
by the father of the bride.
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